Don’t look for a rebound even after you have gone to a bad relationship. Sometimes this happens because you just want to forget about your past lover that you are willing to date anyone just to occupy your mind. This won’t work literally because eventually, if that person you are trying to use to forget your past lover might grow feelings towards you and same to you too. Rebounds are practically normal to most people especially if they have a hard time moving on.
If you are not willing to fall in love with that person, don’t try to fool around. Because feelings will get hurt and also will develop. You might not know it but what if you are starting to like that person you are trying to fool around or probably use for the time being because you just want to move on. And also what if you are the one who is being use by that person? You might ask yourself. If you are a girl, and you just met a guy who was pretty extreme and you found out that he just recently broken up with his girlfriend. The thought of rebound might enter your mind. Or if you are a guy and you are courting someone you really like, and suddenly she became interested with you since she just recently broken up with her boyfriend? Wouldn’t you feel that you are just a rebound?
If you enter a relationship, you can never avoid of feeling that certain doubt. Like does she really like me? Is he really interested in me? Am i only his/her rebound? You always have all these questions in your head because you are also scared of getting hurt. But you cannot avoid that pain in a relationship. Love is pain, and it always will. Its up to you to have the courage to enter any type of relationship. You might get hurt but that doesn’t mean that you haven’t felt love. Loving someone is the best feeling. It may not last forever, or he/she may not be the one for you. But at least you know what to do in the future and rebounds will never help you grow in having a relationship with other people. It will only destroy them and also you too. So if you just had a break-up, don’t fake yourself and jump to another relationship just to move on. Try to heal yourself for awhile until you are now ready for a new beginning of a wonderful relationship in the future.